Amy Fisher, the so-called “Long Island Lolita,” is arrested for shooting Mary Jo Buttafuoco on the front porch of her Massapequa, New York, home. Fisher, only 17 at the time of the shooting, was having an affair with 38-year-old Joey Buttafuoco, Mary Jo’s husband. The tawdry story soon became a tabloid and talk-show fixture, the source of three television movies and countless jokes.
Mary Jo Buttafuoco survived the attack but was left with a bullet lodged in her head and a partially paralyzed face. Fisher, who pled guilty to the shooting, was convicted of assault and received a sentence of 5 to 15 years the following year. Mary Jo called her a “prostitute,” yet seemed to think her husband was blameless in the affair. The courts, however, were less forgiving; Joey was convicted of statutory rape and received a six-month jail sentence in 1993.
While in prison, Fisher claimed that she had been raped by guards and filed a $220 million lawsuit. But the judge who received the complaint said that it read like a “cheap dime-store novel.” Fisher also claimed that her defense attorney, with whom she was having an affair at the time, coerced her into pleading guilty. This line of appeal was not very successful but Mary Jo Buttafuoco, apparently having a change of heart, eventually helped Fisher get out of prison.
After taking anger-management courses in jail, Fisher wrote to apologize to Mary Jo, who later appeared at her parole hearing and forgave her. Fisher was released on parole in May 1999, after serving nearly seven years.
Casualties of Love: The "Long Island Lolita" Story
Casualties of Love: The "Long Island Lolita" Story (1993) was the third made-for-television movie based on the story of Amy Fisher and Joey Buttafuoco, written and directed by John Herzfeld. Alyssa Milano and Jack Scalia played the main characters in this movie for CBS. The movie aired the same night and time as ABC's movie, The Amy Fisher Story, though ABC's movie was much higher rated in the TV ratings and critically praised.
Amy Fisher's Life Now, 20 Years After Being Released From PrisonAmy Fisher leaves Nassau County Court on April 21, 1999. She apologized to Mary Jo Buttafuoco for shooting her in 1992. Fisher will soon go before a parole board and could be free next month. Photo: Willie Anderson/NY Daily News Archive via Getty Images
Amy Fisher's Life Now, 20 Years After Being Released From Prison
Amy Fisher's Life Now, 20 Years After Being Released From Prison
Twenty years ago, Amy Fisher walked out of an upstate New York prison and boarded a chartered plane for the trip home. Dubbed the “Long Island Lolita” by New York tabloids, she had dominated headlines in 1992 as the obsessed, gun-toting teen caught in a love triangle with a mechanic and his unassuming wife.
Seven years after pleading guilty to a reckless-assault charge in the brazen shooting of her lover’s wife, Fisher, 24 years old, was being released from prison early on May 10, 1999. And she had one person in particular to thank for it: the woman she nearly killed, Mary Jo Buttafuoco.
Buttafuoco was 37 when Fisher fired a bullet from a .25-caliber gun into her head near the front door of the Massapequa, New York home she shared with husband Joey, the burly owner of a local auto-body repair shop.
Fisher’s second chance stemmed from the victim’s testimony at an April 1999 resentencing hearing, slated after a court found that Fisher had not been fairly represented by her first lawyer at her 1992 trial.
Buttafuoco, an Irish Catholic mother of two, asked a criminal court judge to show mercy to the teen: “She has shown true remorse and sorrow for what she did to me,” she told State Supreme Court judge Ira Wexner.
Speaking to Fisher directly, Buttafuoco said: “You are being given a second chance in life, and I pray you will take it and make something positive out of all this tragedy.” Fisher, in turn, said: “What happened to you…it wasn’t your husband’s fault… It was my fault, and I’m sorry.”
The two women clasped hands in a courtroom that had fallen still.
Wexner vacated Fisher’s 1992 guilty plea to reckless assault, which had carried a 5-to-15-year sentence.
In public statements, Mary Jo explained her position: “She needed to be punished—she tried to kill me𠅋ut Amy Fisher is not a ‘Lolita.’ This is a sick girl. This is not a seductress.” The victim had begun corresponding with Fisher’s mother, Roseann, two years earlier𠅊nother factor that contributed to the merciful twist in the case.
The apology earned Fisher parole a few weeks later from the Albion Correctional Facility. For his part in the scandal, Joey Buttafuoco had earlier been sentenced to six months in jail for statutory rape, because the affair had begun when Fisher was 16.
Fisher’s flight to freedom closed the first chapter of a saga that had begun with the gunshot fired in a jealous rage on May 19, 1992. The case spawned global headlines, as well as three made-for-TV movies. (One starred Drew Barrymore as Fisher another, sitcom actress Alyssa Milano.)
Fisher is 44 now, a divorced mother of three. She returned to New York a couple of years ago, after seeking a fresh start in Florida, where she found it difficult to escape her notoriety: “My kids were ostracized,” she told the New York Post in 2017.
“They had no friends. All the mothers thought their kids would get the 𠆊my Fisher gene’ if they hung out with them.”
After Fisher’s release, the Buttafuocos moved to the West Coast, formally divorcing in 2003. Joey Buttafuoco has tried to parlay his notoriety into a Hollywood career, with small parts in movies and TV shows including lebrity Boxing” (in which he fought Fisher’s husband). He has also had several arrests and served a jail sentence for auto-insurance fraud. He remarried in 2005 to Evanka Franjko.
Fisher remained on Long Island, writing newspaper columns for the Long Island Press and promoting a book, If I Knew Then…, written with the paper’s editor. The same year the Buttafuocos moved to California, Fisher married Lou Bellera, a one-time NYPD cop.
Fisher says Bellera guided her toward a career in the sex industry, a charge Bellera denied to the New York Post. Fisher had breast augmentation, among other cosmetic procedures. An amateur sex tape was released in 2007, which led to strip-club appearances, additional porn films (Deep Inside Amy Fisher) and a feature spot on a season of lebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew.”
Fisher, Joey and Mary Jo were paid to hold a 2006 TV reunion that culminated in the two women embracing on camera. Fisher and Mary Jo appeared on 𠇎ntertainment Tonight” that same year. In 2007, Fisher and Joey Buttafuoco met for a dinner on Long Island that a TV producer said was an attempt to lay the groundwork for a reality show.
In 2008, Fisher was a guest on “The Howard Stern Show,” where she was expected to discuss her video. But she left the broadcast minutes into the interview, after the first phone call—which came from Jessica Buttafuoco, Mary Jo and Joey’s daughter.
Fisher and Bellera divorced in 2015.
Mary Jo Buttafuoco published a book about the shooting and her relationship with her ex-husband in 2009. In Getting It Through My Thick Skull, she laid out an argument for why her ex-husband was a “sociopath.”
In 2012, she married Stu Tendler, a printing-industry professional raised in New York. He died of cancer last year.
Mary Jo still lives with the remnants of Fisher’s bullet in her head, and its effects. She serves as an advocate for people with facial paralysis.
Speaking with Long Island’s Newsday at the time her book was published, Mary Jo said she still thinks of Fisher 𠇊 lot.”
𠇎very day, when I look in the mirror and I can’t move my face in a certain way.”
Joey Buttafuoco and Amy Fisher: 25 Years Later, Where Are They Now?
They were household names: Amy Fisher. Mary Jo Buttafuoco. Joey Buttafuoco.
On May 19, 1992, Mary Jo Buttafuoco was shot in the head on the front porch of her home in Massapequa, New York. The shooter: 17-year-old Fisher, a high school student who was having an affair with Mary Jo’s husband, Joey.
Miraculously, Mary Jo survived the attack. As the media swarmed their quiet neighborhood, all three members of the lover’s triangle became nationally-known personalities. Fisher was dubbed the “Long Island Lolita.” With his tough-talking exterior, Joey was known as the villain. And Mary Jo was considered the innocent housewife caught up in her husband’s infidelities.
As the 25th anniversary of the crime approaches, the case is the subject of a new TV show, Scandal Made Me Famous, on the Reelz Network. In the show, Mary Jo Buttafuoco recalls the attack — and how she’s doing today. The show also gives updates on the lives of the three people involved in one of the most sordid scandals of the s.
Mary Jo Buttafuoco
Now 61, Mary Jo has moved on with her life. She divorced her husband in 2003, and is living a quiet life away from the spotlight — except for the occasional TV appearance.
She still grapples with her injuries: she is partially paralyzed on one side of her face and deaf in one ear. Because surgery would have been too dangerous, the bullet remains lodged in her neck.Buttafuoco also shares her feelings about Fisher’s plea deal. “It wasn’t an assault,” she says. “It was an assassination.”
After spending seven years in jail for assault, Fisher was released in 1999. She briefly worked as a columnist for the Long Island Press. She married Louis Bellera in 2003 and had three children. (The couple divorced last year.) She wrote a 2004 book about her experiences, If I Knew Then.
In 2007, after a sex tape emerged, Fisher began a brief career in adult entertainment. She starred in her own pay-per-view adult film entitled Amy Fisher: Totally Nude & Exposed, and made a handful of other adult movies. She walked away from the industry in 2011.
Now 42, Fisher lives in Florida. She has occasionally spoken out about the Buttafuocos, and has even made public appearances with them over the years.
After Fisher’s assault conviction, Joey was indicted on 19 counts of statutory rape, sodomy, and endangering the welfare of a child. Although he initially pleaded not guilty, he later admitted that he had sex with Fisher when she was just 16 — and that he had known her age at the time. He spent four months in jail.
After his 2003 split from Mary Jo, he remarried and continued making TV appearances. He has appeared on Celebrity Boxing, Judge Janine Pirro, and Judge Alex. He has appeared in about a dozen movies.
“Long Island Lolita” is arrested - HISTORY
This Day In History: May 21, 1992
On May 21, 1992, 17-year-old Amy Fisher was arrested two days after shooting her lover’s wife on the porch of their home in Long Island, New York. The victim, though gravely injured, survived the attack and eventually forgave her assailant. When the sordid details of her affair with her much older, very married, boyfriend became public, Amy was dubbed the Long Island Lolita by the national media.
The infamous affair between Amy Fisher and Joey Buttafuoco began in May of 1991. They met at his auto shop when her father was getting a car repaired. Amy was 16 and Joey was 35. After many trysts, including a nine-day marathon in the local Freeport Motel during July of 1991, Amy decided she wanted more from the relationship than just sex.
By spring of 1992, she was pressuring Joey to leave his wife, Mary Jo. Joey had no intentions of breaking up his marriage, and flatly refused to entertain the idea. Consumed with rage, Amy headed over to the Buttafuoco home. When Mary Jo came to the door, after a very brief conversation, Amy shot her in the head at close range. Miraculously, as mentioned, Mrs. Buttafuoco lived to tell the tale but was left with a bullet in her head and her face partially paralyzed.
Amy Fisher was arrested at her home on May 21, 1992 thanks to information provided by Joey Buttafuoco and a description from Mary Jo. A week later, Fisher was indicted for attempted murder. The police launched an investigation against Buttafuoco for statutory rape, but were forced to drop it for lack of evidence.
That is, until one of his co-workers came forward and stated that Buttafuoco bragged about his sexual relationship with Fisher. The rape case was re-opened, and with the help of such evidence as a signed hotel receipt, Buttafuoco pled guilty to the July 1991 sex-a-thon at the Freeport Motel. He received a six month jail sentence. During the proceedings, Mary Jo Buttafuoco referred to Amy as a “prostitute”, but, at least publicly, believed “her Joey” was 100 percent blameless in the situation.
Amy pled guilty to the lesser crime of assault and was sentenced to 5-15 years. While serving her sentence, Amy claimed she was coerced into pleading guilty by her attorney, who she was also sleeping with. She also complained she was being raped by prison guards, and filed a $220 million lawsuit, which she later dropped.
After taking anger management courses, Amy wrote to Mary Jo Buttafuoco apologizing for the horrible crime she committed against her. Whatever she said must have had a profound effect on Buttafuoco because she forgave Fisher and came to her parole hearing.
Amy was released in 1999 after serving seven years of her sentence, no doubt thanks to Mary Jo’s intervention.
The Buttafuocos divorced in 2003 after 26 years of marriage.
Amy Fisher became a columnist for the Long Island Press, got married and had two children, and occasionally teamed up with either Mary Jo or Joey for appearances on programs like Entertainment Tonight and The Insider. She’s also penned an autobiography called “If I Knew Then.”
Writing her autobiography was a way for Amy to clear up the many misconceptions she feels the public has about her. She said, “there was so much thrown out there about me, about my life, 99 percent of it was negative, 90 percent of it wasn’t even true. So I said, you know what, by telling my true story it can’t be any worse than the false story that’s already out there.”
Since then, and after the release of a sex tape she and her husband had made and her husband sold to Red Light District Video (seemingly without her consent based on the subsequent lawsuit), she has dabbled in the adult film industry, worked as a stripper, and operated a webcam show out of her home.
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The novel is prefaced by a fictitious foreword by John Ray Jr., an editor of psychology books. Ray states that he is presenting a memoir written by a man using the pseudonym "Humbert Humbert", who had recently died of heart disease while awaiting a murder trial in jail. The memoir begins with Humbert's birth in Paris in 1910. He spends his childhood on the French Riviera, where he falls in love with his friend Annabel Leigh. This youthful and physically unfulfilled love is interrupted by Annabel's premature death from typhus, which causes Humbert to become sexually obsessed with a specific type of girl, aged 9 to 14, whom he refers to as "nymphets". After graduation, Humbert works as an English teacher and begins editing an academic literary textbook. Before the outbreak of World War II, Humbert moves to New York. In 1947, he moves to Ramsdale, a small town in New England, where he can calmly continue working on his book. The house that he intends to live in is destroyed in a fire, and in his search for a new home, he meets the widow Charlotte Haze, who is accepting tenants. Humbert visits Charlotte's residence out of politeness and initially intends to decline her offer. However, Charlotte leads Humbert to her garden, where her 12-year-old daughter Dolores (also variably known as Dolly, Dolita, Lo, Lola, and Lolita) is sunbathing. Humbert sees in Dolores the perfect nymphet, the embodiment of his old love Annabel, and quickly decides to move in.
The impassioned Humbert constantly searches for discreet forms of fulfilling his sexual urges, usually via the smallest physical contact with Dolores. When Dolores is sent to summer camp, Humbert receives a letter from Charlotte, who confesses her love for him and gives him an ultimatum – he is to either marry her or move out immediately. Initially terrified, Humbert then begins to see the charm in the situation of being Dolores' stepfather, and so marries Charlotte for instrumental reasons. Charlotte later discovers Humbert's diary, in which she learns of his desire for her daughter and the disgust Charlotte arouses in him. Shocked and humiliated, Charlotte decides to flee with Dolores and writes letters addressed to her friends warning them of Humbert. Disbelieving Humbert's false assurance that the diary is a sketch for a future novel, Charlotte runs out of the house to send the letters but is killed by a swerving car. Humbert destroys the letters and retrieves Dolores from camp, claiming that her mother has fallen seriously ill and has been hospitalized. He then takes her to a high-end hotel that Charlotte had earlier recommended. Humbert knows he will feel guilty if he consciously rapes Dolores, and so tricks her into taking a sedative by saying it is a vitamin. As he waits for the pill to take effect, he wanders through the hotel and meets a mysterious man who seems to be aware of Humbert's plan for Dolores. Humbert excuses himself from the conversation and returns to the hotel room. There, he discovers that he had been fobbed with a milder drug, as Dolores is merely drowsy and wakes up frequently, drifting in and out of sleep. He dares not touch her that night. In the morning, Dolores reveals to Humbert that she actually has already lost her virginity, having engaged in sexual activity with an older boy at a different camp a year ago. He begins sexually abusing her. After leaving the hotel, Humbert reveals to Dolores that her mother is dead.
Humbert and Dolores travel across the country, driving all day and staying in motels. Humbert desperately tries to maintain Dolores' interest in travel and himself, and increasingly bribes her in exchange for sexual favors. They finally settle in Beardsley, a small New England town. Humbert adopts the role of Dolores' father and enrolls her in a local private school for girls. Humbert jealously and strictly controls all of Dolores' social gatherings and forbids her from dating and attending parties. It is only at the instigation of the school headmaster, who regards Humbert as a strict and conservative European parent, that he agrees to Dolores' participation in the school play, the title of which is the same as the hotel in which Humbert met the mysterious man. The day before the premiere of the performance, a serious quarrel breaks out between Dolores and Humbert, and Dolores runs out of the house. When Humbert finds her a few moments later, she tells him that she wants to leave town and continue traveling. Humbert is initially delighted, but as he travels, he becomes increasingly suspicious – he feels that he is being followed by someone Dolores is familiar with. The man following them is Clare Quilty – a friend of Charlotte and a famous playwright who wrote the play that Dolores was to participate in. In the Colorado mountains, Dolores falls ill. Humbert checks her into a local hospital, from where she is discharged one night by her "uncle". Humbert knows she has no living relatives and he immediately embarks on a frantic search to find Dolores and her abductor, but initially fails. For the next two years, Humbert barely sustains himself in a moderately functional relationship with a young alcoholic named Rita.
Deeply depressed, Humbert unexpectedly receives a letter from a 17-year-old Dolores (signing as "Dolly (Mrs. Richard F. Schiller)"), telling him that she is married, pregnant, and in desperate need of money. Humbert, armed with a pistol, tracks down Dolores' address and gives her the money, which was due as an inheritance from her mother. Humbert learns that Dolores' husband, a deaf mechanic, is not her abductor. Dolores reveals to Humbert that Quilty took her from the hospital and that she was in love with him, but she was rejected when she refused to star in one of his pornographic films. Dolores also rejects Humbert's request to leave with him. Humbert goes to the drug-addled Quilty's mansion and shoots him several times. Shortly afterward, Humbert is arrested, and in his closing thoughts, he reaffirms his love for Dolores and asks for his memoir to be withheld from public release until after her death. Dolores dies in childbirth on Christmas Day in 1952, disappointing Humbert's prediction that "Dolly Schiller will probably survive me by many years".
Lolita is frequently described as an "erotic novel", not only by some critics but also in a standard reference work on literature Facts on File: Companion to the American Short Story.  The Great Soviet Encyclopedia called Lolita "an experiment in combining an erotic novel with an instructive novel of manners".  The same description of the novel is found in Desmond Morris's reference work The Book of Ages.  A survey of books for Women's Studies courses describes it as a "tongue-in-cheek erotic novel".  Books focused on the history of erotic literature such as Michael Perkins' The Secret Record: Modern Erotic Literature also so classify Lolita.  More cautious classifications have included a "novel with erotic motifs"  or one of "a number of works of classical erotic literature and art, and to novels that contain elements of eroticism, such as Ulysses and Lady Chatterley's Lover". 
This classification has been disputed. Malcolm Bradbury writes "at first famous as an erotic novel, Lolita soon won its way as a literary one—a late modernist distillation of the whole crucial mythology."  Samuel Schuman says that Nabokov "is a surrealist, linked to Gogol, Dostoyevsky, and Kafka. Lolita is characterized by irony and sarcasm it is not an erotic novel." 
Lance Olsen writes: "The first 13 chapters of the text, culminating with the oft-cited scene of Lo unwittingly stretching her legs across Humbert's excited lap . are the only chapters suggestive of the erotic."  Nabokov himself observes in the novel's afterword that a few readers were "misled [by the opening of the book] . into assuming this was going to be a lewd book . [expecting] the rising succession of erotic scenes when these stopped, the readers stopped, too, and felt bored." 
The novel is narrated by Humbert, who riddles the narrative with word play and his wry observations of American culture. The novel's flamboyant style is characterized by double entendres, multilingual puns, anagrams, and coinages such as nymphet, a word that has since had a life of its own and can be found in most dictionaries, and the lesser-used "faunlet". Most writers see Humbert as an unreliable narrator and credit Nabokov's powers as an ironist. For Richard Rorty, in his interpretation of Lolita in Contingency, Irony, and Solidarity, Humbert is a "monster of incuriosity." Nabokov himself described Humbert as "a vain and cruel wretch"   and "a hateful person." 
Critics have further noted that, since the novel is a first person narrative by Humbert, the novel gives very little information about what Lolita is like as a person, that in effect she has been silenced by not being the book's narrator. Nomi Tamir-Ghez writes "Not only is Lolita's voice silenced, her point of view, the way she sees the situation and feels about it, is rarely mentioned and can be only surmised by the reader . since it is Humbert who tells the story . throughout most of the novel, the reader is absorbed in Humbert's feelings".  Similarly Mica Howe and Sarah Appleton Aguiar write that the novel silences and objectifies Lolita.  Christine Clegg notes that this is a recurring theme in criticism of the novel in the 1990s.  Actor Brian Cox, who played Humbert in a 2009 one-man stage monologue based on the novel, stated that the novel is "not about Lolita as a flesh and blood entity. It's Lolita as a memory". He concluded that a stage monologue would be truer to the book than any film could possibly be.  Elizabeth Janeway writing in The New York Times Book Review holds "Humbert is every man who is driven by desire, wanting his Lolita so badly that it never occurs to him to consider her as a human being, or as anything but a dream-figment made flesh". 
Clegg sees the novel's non-disclosure of Lolita's feelings as directly linked to the fact that her "real" name is Dolores and only Humbert refers to her as Lolita.  Humbert also states he has effectively "solipsized" Lolita early in the novel.  Eric Lemay writes:
The human child, the one noticed by non-nymphomaniacs, answers to other names, "Lo", "Lola", "Dolly", and, least alluring of all, "Dolores". "But in my arms," asserts Humbert, "she was always Lolita." And in his arms or out, "Lolita" was always the creation of Humbert's craven self . The Siren-like Humbert sings a song of himself, to himself, and titles that self and that song "Lolita". . To transform Dolores into Lolita, to seal this sad adolescent within his musky self, Humbert must deny her her humanity. 
In 2003, Iranian expatriate Azar Nafisi published the memoir Reading Lolita in Tehran about a covert women's reading group. In an NPR interview Nafisi contrasts the sorrowful and seductive sides of Dolores/Lolita's character. She notes "Because her name is not Lolita, her real name is Dolores which as you know in Latin means dolour, so her real name is associated with sorrow and with anguish and with innocence, while Lolita becomes a sort of light-headed, seductive, and airy name. The Lolita of our novel is both of these at the same time and in our culture here today we only associate it with one aspect of that little girl and the crassest interpretation of her." Following Nafisi's comments, the NPR interviewer, Madeleine Brand, lists as embodiments of the latter side of Lolita, "the Long Island Lolita, Britney Spears, the Olsen twins, and Sue Lyon in Stanley Kubrick's Lolita". 
For Nafisi, the essence of the novel is Humbert's solipsism and his erasure of Lolita's independent identity. She writes: "Lolita was given to us as Humbert's creature […] To reinvent her, Humbert must take from Lolita her own real history and replace it with his own . Yet she does have a past. Despite Humbert's attempts to orphan Lolita by robbing her of her history, that past is still given to us in glimpses." 
One of the novel's early champions, Lionel Trilling, warned in 1958 of the moral difficulty in interpreting a book with so eloquent and so self-deceived a narrator: "we find ourselves the more shocked when we realize that, in the course of reading the novel, we have come virtually to condone the violation it presents . we have been seduced into conniving in the violation, because we have permitted our fantasies to accept what we know to be revolting." 
In 1958, Dorothy Parker described the novel as "the engrossing, anguished story of a man, a man of taste and culture, who can love only little girls" and Lolita as "a dreadful little creature, selfish, hard, vulgar, and foul-tempered".  In 1959, novelist Robertson Davies wrote that the theme of Lolita is "not the corruption of an innocent child by a cunning adult, but the exploitation of a weak adult by a corrupt child. This is no pretty theme, but it is one with which social workers, magistrates and psychiatrists are familiar." 
In his essay on Stalinism Koba the Dread, Martin Amis proposes that Lolita is an elaborate metaphor for the totalitarianism that destroyed the Russia of Nabokov's childhood (though Nabokov states in his afterword that he "[detests] symbols and allegories"). Amis interprets it as a story of tyranny told from the point of view of the tyrant. "Nabokov, in all his fiction, writes with incomparable penetration about delusion and coercion, about cruelty and lies," he says. "Even Lolita, especially Lolita, is a study in tyranny."
The term "Lolita" has been assimilated into popular culture as a description of a young girl who is "precociously seductive. without connotations of victimization". 
Nabokov finished Lolita on 6 December 1953, five years after starting it.  Because of its subject matter, Nabokov intended to publish it pseudonymously (although the anagrammatic character Vivian Darkbloom would tip off the alert reader).  The manuscript was turned down, with more or less regret, by Viking, Simon & Schuster, New Directions, Farrar, Straus, and Doubleday.  After these refusals and warnings, he finally resorted to publication in France. Via his translator Doussia Ergaz, it reached Maurice Girodias of Olympia Press, "three-quarters of [whose] list was pornographic trash".  Underinformed about Olympia, overlooking hints of Girodias's approval of the conduct of a protagonist Girodias presumed was based on the author, and despite warnings from Morris Bishop, his friend at Cornell, Nabokov signed a contract with Olympia Press for publication of the book, to come out under his own name. 
Lolita was published in September 1955, as a pair of green paperbacks "swarming with typographical errors".  Although the first printing of 5,000 copies sold out, there were no substantial reviews.  Eventually, at the very end of 1955, Graham Greene, in the London Sunday Times, called it one of the three best books of 1955.  This statement provoked a response from the London Sunday Express, whose editor John Gordon called it "the filthiest book I have ever read" and "sheer unrestrained pornography".  British Customs officers were then instructed by the Home Office to seize all copies entering the United Kingdom.  In December 1956, France followed suit, and the Minister of the Interior banned Lolita  the ban lasted for two years. Its eventual British publication by Weidenfeld & Nicolson in London in 1959 was controversial enough to contribute to the end of the political career of the Conservative member of parliament Nigel Nicolson, one of the company's partners. 
The novel then appeared in Danish and Dutch translations. Two editions of a Swedish translation were withdrawn at the author's request.  
Despite initial trepidation, there was no official response in the U.S., and the first American edition was issued by G. P. Putnam's Sons in August 1958. The book was into a third printing within days and became the first since Gone with the Wind to sell 100,000 copies in its first three weeks.  Orville Prescott, the influential book reviewer of the New York Times, greatly disliked the book, describing it as "dull, dull, dull in a pretentious, florid and archly fatuous fashion".  This review failed to influence the book's sales.
Contemporary reception Edit
The novel continues to generate controversy today as modern society has become increasingly aware of the lasting damage created by child sexual abuse. In 2008, an entire book was published on the best ways to teach the novel in a college classroom given that "its particular mix of narrative strategies, ornate allusive prose, and troublesome subject matter complicates its presentation to students".  In this book, one author urges teachers to note that Dolores' suffering is noted in the book even if the main focus is on Humbert. Many critics describe Humbert as a rapist, notably Azar Nafisi in her best-selling Reading Lolita in Tehran,  though in a survey of critics David Larmour notes that other interpreters of the novel have been reluctant to use that term.  Near the end of the novel, Humbert accuses himself, as noted in the above plot synopsis, of statutory rape, which his behavior clearly was. However, Nabokov biographer Brian Boyd denies that it was rape "in any ordinary sense," on the grounds that "it is she who suggests that they try out the naughty trick" which she has already learned at summer camp.  This perspective is vigorously disputed by Peter Rabinowitz in his essay "Lolita: Solipsized or Sodomized?".  In 2020, a podcast hosted by Jamie Loftus set out to examine the cultural legacy of the novel, and argued that depictions and adaptations have "twisted" Nabokov's original intention of condemning Humbert in Lolita.  
Links in Nabokov's work Edit
In 1928 Nabokov wrote a poem named Lilith (Лилит), depicting a sexually attractive underage girl who seduces the male protagonist just to leave him humiliated in public.  In 1939 he wrote a novella, Volshebnik (Волшебник), that was published only posthumously in 1986 in English translation as The Enchanter. It bears many similarities to Lolita, but also has significant differences: it takes place in Central Europe, and the protagonist is unable to consummate his passion with his stepdaughter, leading to his suicide. The theme of hebephilia was already touched on by Nabokov in his short story "A Nursery Tale", written in 1926. Also, in the 1932 Laughter in the Dark, Margot Peters is 16 and had already had an affair when middle-aged Albinus becomes attracted to her.
In chapter three of the novel The Gift (written in Russian in 1935–37) the similar gist of Lolita ' s first chapter is outlined to the protagonist, Fyodor Cherdyntsev, by his landlord Shchyogolev as an idea of a novel he would write "if I only had the time": a man marries a widow only to gain access to her young daughter, who resists all his passes. Shchyogolev says it happened "in reality" to a friend of his it is made clear to the reader that it concerns himself and his stepdaughter Zina (15 at the time of Shchyogolev's marriage to her mother) who becomes the love of Fyodor's life.
In April 1947, Nabokov wrote to Edmund Wilson: "I am writing . a short novel about a man who liked little girls—and it's going to be called The Kingdom by the Sea".  The work expanded into Lolita during the next eight years. Nabokov used the title A Kingdom by the Sea in his 1974 pseudo-autobiographical novel Look at the Harlequins! for a Lolita-like book written by the narrator who, in addition, travels with his teenage daughter Bel from motel to motel after the death of her mother later, his fourth wife is Bel's look-alike and shares her birthday.
In Nabokov's 1962 novel Pale Fire, the titular poem by fictional John Shade mentions Hurricane Lolita coming up the American east coast in 1958, and narrator Charles Kinbote (in the commentary later in the book) notes it, questioning why anyone would have chosen an obscure Spanish nickname for a hurricane. There were no hurricanes named Lolita that year, but that is the year that Lolita the novel was published in North America.
The unfinished novel The Original of Laura, published posthumously, features the character Hubert H. Hubert, an older man preying upon then-child protagonist, Flora. Unlike those of Humbert Humbert in Lolita, Hubert's advances are unsuccessful.
Literary pastiches, allusions and prototypes Edit
The novel abounds in allusions to classical and modern literature. Virtually all of them have been noted in The Annotated Lolita, edited and annotated by Alfred Appel Jr. Many are references to Humbert's own favorite poet, Edgar Allan Poe.
Humbert's first love, Annabel Leigh, is named after the "maiden" in the poem "Annabel Lee" by Poe this poem is alluded to many times in the novel, and its lines are borrowed to describe Humbert's love. A passage in chapter 11 reuses verbatim Poe's phrase . by the side of my darling—my darling—my life and my bride.  In the opening of the novel, the phrase Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, exhibit number one is what the seraphs, the misinformed, simple, noble-winged seraphs, envied, is a pastiche of two passages of the poem, the winged seraphs of heaven (line 11), and The angels, not half so happy in heaven, went envying her and me (lines 21–2).  Nabokov originally intended Lolita to be called The Kingdom by the Sea,  drawing on the rhyme with Annabel Lee that was used in the first verse of Poe's work. A variant of this line is reprised in the opening of chapter one, which reads . had I not loved, one summer, an initial girl-child. In a princedom by the sea. 
Humbert Humbert's double name recalls Poe's "William Wilson", a tale in which the main character is haunted by his doppelgänger, paralleling to the presence of Humbert's own doppelgänger, Clare Quilty. Humbert is not, however, his real name, but a chosen pseudonym. The theme of the doppelgänger also occurs in Nabokov's earlier novel, Despair.
Chapter 26 of Part One contains a parody of Joyce's stream of consciousness. 
Humbert's field of expertise is French literature (one of his jobs is writing a series of educational works that compare French writers to English writers), and as such there are several references to French literature, including the authors Gustave Flaubert, Marcel Proust, François Rabelais, Charles Baudelaire, Prosper Mérimée, Remy Belleau, Honoré de Balzac, and Pierre de Ronsard.
Nabokov was fond of the works of Lewis Carroll, and had translated Alice in Wonderland into Russian. He even called Carroll the "first Humbert Humbert".  Lolita contains a few brief allusions in the text to the Alice books, though overall Nabokov avoided direct allusions to Carroll. In her book, Tramp: The Life of Charlie Chaplin, Joyce Milton claims that a major inspiration for the novel was Charlie Chaplin's relationship with his second wife, Lita Grey, whose real name was Lillita and is often misstated as Lolita. Graham Vickers in his book Chasing Lolita: How Popular Culture Corrupted Nabokov's Little Girl All Over Again argues that the two major real-world predecessors of Humbert are Lewis Carroll and Charlie Chaplin. Although Appel's comprehensive Annotated Lolita contains no references to Charlie Chaplin, others have picked up several oblique references to Chaplin's life in Nabokov's book. Bill Delaney notes that at the end Lolita and her husband move to the fictional Alaskan town of "Gray Star" while Chaplin's The Gold Rush, set in Alaska, was originally set to star Lita Grey. Lolita's first sexual encounter was with a boy named Charlie Holmes, whom Humbert describes as "the silent. but indefatigable Charlie." Chaplin had an artist paint Lita Grey in imitation of Joshua Reynolds's painting The Age of Innocence. When Humbert visits Lolita in a class at her school, he notes a print of the same painting in the classroom. Delaney's article notes many other parallels as well. 
The foreword refers to "the monumental decision rendered December 6, 1933 by Hon. John M. Woolsey in regard to another, considerably more outspoken book"—that is, the decision in the case United States v. One Book Called Ulysses, in which Woolsey ruled that Joyce's Ulysses was not obscene and could be sold in the United States.
In chapter 29 of Part Two, Humbert comments that Lolita looks "like Botticelli's russet Venus—the same soft nose, the same blurred beauty", referencing Sandro Botticelli's depiction of Venus in, perhaps, The Birth of Venus or Venus and Mars.
In chapter 35 of Part Two, Humbert's "death sentence" on Quilty parodies the rhythm and use of anaphora in T. S. Eliot's poem Ash Wednesday.
Many other references to classical and Romantic literature abound, including references to Lord Byron's Childe Harold's Pilgrimage and to the poetry of Laurence Sterne.
Other possible real-life prototypes Edit
In addition to the possible prototypes of Lewis Carroll and Charlie Chaplin, Alexander Dolinin suggests  that the prototype of Lolita was 11-year-old Florence Horner, kidnapped in 1948 by 50-year-old mechanic Frank La Salle, who had caught her stealing a five-cent notebook. La Salle traveled with her over various states for 21 months and is believed to have raped her. He claimed that he was an FBI agent and threatened to "turn her in" for the theft and to send her to "a place for girls like you." The Horner case was not widely reported, but Dolinin notes various similarities in events and descriptions.
While Nabokov had already used the same basic idea—that of a child molester and his victim booking into a hotel as father and daughter—in his then-unpublished 1939 work The Enchanter (Волшебник), he mentions the Horner case explicitly in Chapter 33 of Part II of Lolita: "Had I done to Dolly, perhaps, what Frank Lasalle, a fifty-year-old mechanic, had done to eleven-year-old Sally Horner in 1948?",
Heinz von Lichberg's "Lolita" Edit
German academic Michael Maar's book The Two Lolitas  describes his recent discovery of a 1916 German short story titled "Lolita" whose middle-aged narrator describes travelling abroad as a student. He takes a room as a lodger and instantly becomes obsessed with the preteen girl (also named Lolita) who lives in the same house. Maar has speculated that Nabokov may have had cryptomnesia ("hidden memory") while he was composing Lolita during the 1950s. Maar says that until 1937 Nabokov lived in the same section of Berlin as the author, Heinz von Eschwege (pen name: Heinz von Lichberg), and was most likely familiar with his work, which was widely available in Germany during Nabokov's time there.   The Philadelphia Inquirer, in the article "Lolita at 50: Did Nabokov take literary liberties?" says that, according to Maar, accusations of plagiarism should not apply and quotes him as saying: "Literature has always been a huge crucible in which familiar themes are continually recast. Nothing of what we admire in Lolita is already to be found in the tale the former is in no way deducible from the latter."  See also Jonathan Lethem's essay "The Ecstasy of Influence: A Plagiarism" in Harper's Magazine on this story. 
In 1956, Nabokov wrote an afterword to Lolita ("On a Book Entitled Lolita"), that first appeared in the first U.S. edition and has appeared thereafter. 
One of the first things Nabokov makes a point of saying is that, despite John Ray Jr.'s claim in the Foreword, there is no moral to the story. 
Nabokov adds that "the initial shiver of inspiration" for Lolita "was somehow prompted by a newspaper story about an ape in the Jardin des Plantes who, after months of coaxing by a scientist, produced the first drawing ever charcoaled by an animal: this sketch showed the bars of the poor creature's cage".  Neither the article nor the drawing has been recovered.
In response to an American critic who characterized Lolita as the record of Nabokov's "love affair with the romantic novel", Nabokov writes that "the substitution of 'English language' for 'romantic novel' would make this elegant formula more correct". 
Nabokov concludes the afterword with a reference to his beloved first language, which he abandoned as a writer once he moved to the United States in 1940: "My private tragedy, which cannot, and indeed should not, be anybody's concern, is that I had to abandon my natural idiom, my untrammeled, rich, and infinitely docile Russian language for a second-rate brand of English". 
Nabokov rated the book highly. In an interview for BBC Television in 1962, he said:
Lolita is a special favorite of mine. It was my most difficult book—the book that treated of a theme which was so distant, so remote, from my own emotional life that it gave me a special pleasure to use my combinational talent to make it real. 
Over a year later, in an interview for Playboy, he said:
No, I shall never regret Lolita. She was like the composition of a beautiful puzzle—its composition and its solution at the same time, since one is a mirror view of the other, depending on the way you look. Of course she completely eclipsed my other works—at least those I wrote in English: The Real Life of Sebastian Knight, Bend Sinister, my short stories, my book of recollections but I cannot grudge her this. There is a queer, tender charm about that mythical nymphet.  
In the same year, in an interview with Life, Nabokov was asked which of his writings had most pleased him. He answered:
I would say that of all my books Lolita has left me with the most pleasurable afterglow—perhaps because it is the purest of all, the most abstract and carefully contrived. I am probably responsible for the odd fact that people don't seem to name their daughters Lolita any more. I have heard of young female poodles being given that name since 1956, but of no human beings. 
Russian translation Edit
The Russian translation includes a "Postscriptum"  in which Nabokov reconsiders his relationship with his native language. Referring to the afterword to the English edition, Nabokov states that only "the scientific scrupulousness led me to preserve the last paragraph of the American afterword in the Russian text. " He further explains that the "story of this translation is the story of a disappointment. Alas, that 'wonderful Russian language' which, I imagined, still awaits me somewhere, which blooms like a faithful spring behind the locked gate to which I, after so many years, still possess the key, turned out to be non-existent, and there is nothing beyond that gate, except for some burned out stumps and hopeless autumnal emptiness, and the key in my hand looks rather like a lock pick."
Lolita has been adapted as two films, a musical, four stage-plays, one completed opera, and two ballets. There is also Nabokov's unfilmed (and re-edited) screenplay, an uncompleted opera based on the work, and an "imagined opera" which combines elements of opera and dance.
Where Is 'Long Island Lolita' Amy Fisher Now? 'Snapped' to Feature Update
Sunday's episode of Snapped featured a popular case in American media. Amy Fisher infamously shot Long Island stay-at-home mother, Mary Jo Buttafuoco, on her front steps.
Fisher then shot Mary Jo Buttafuoco in the temple, though she alleged she was only trying to hit her with the gun. Fisher had been having an affair with Joey Buttafuoco, Mary Jo's husband.
Fisher spent six years in prison before her parole in 1999. So where is the controversial "Long Island Lolita" now?
Since her parole, Amy Fisher became an adult film star. Before her arrest and conviction, Fisher had worked as a call girl. During the media frenzy which overtook her teenage life, a nonconsensual, sexual film featuring Fisher was released.
Fisher and her then-husband, Louis Bellara, released an adult film, Amy Fisher: Caught On Tape, in 2007. Since, she has been credited in an additional six films, according to the Internet Movie Database.
In 2011, Fisher appeared on the reality show Celebrity Rehab with Dr. Drew, though she claimed she wasn't a typical candidate, the Insider reported in 2011.
"I don't need rehab," she said. "But I think I made for an interesting cast member."
Fisher commented that drinking was a typical part of marriage and family life.
"Of course I need to drink," she said. "In my private life I'm married. I have three children. I'm really no different from anybody else because I've been turned into this tabloid figure that's wild and a w****."
Bellara and Fisher were married in 2003 and divorced in 2015, according to the Investigation Discovery Crime Feed.
Fisher seems to have moved on from her time as a convicted inmate. She spoke on her lack of sympathy for Mary Jo Buttafuoco in 2008, Fox reported.
"Mary Jo is a nonentity. People are angry at me because I'm a millionaire. But guess what? So is Mary Jo! She made more millions off of what I did than what I made," she said. "I feel no sympathy for Mary Jo the multimillionaire! The fact that Mary Jo has a bullet in her head means nothing! I still have silicone in my boobs, and you don't hear me complaining. She can't feel her bullet, and I can't feel my silicone."
Fisher has also released a book titled Amy Fisher: My Story. She has three children.
Amy Fisher in the media
The media was not kind to Amy. They called her the Long Island Lolita and she was treated like a provocative teenager. People thought of her as a prostitute who couldn’t stay away from a married man, and many hated her.
While the media was dragging her and she was waiting for her sentencing, Mary Jo still believed that her husband was innocent. She stood by his side and the couple even attended interviews together to clear Joey’s name.
It wasn’t until his co-workers decided to tell the media that Joey had once bragged about his sexual relationship with Amy that Mary Jo finally believed her husband may not have been innocent.
"A Walking Stick of Dynamite"
When her turn to speak came, Fisher nervously apologized, but continued to insist that Joey Buttafuoco had encouraged her.
Judge Goodman was unmoved. "You are a disgrace to yourself, your family, and your friends," he told Fisher as he imposed the maximum sentence of 5-to-15 years imprisonment. "You were like a walking stick of dynamite with the fuse lit."
The Buttafuocos happily declared they were satisfied with the verdict and used the occasion to once again brand Fisher a liar. Major television networks soon aired the made-for-TV movies whose broadcast rights had floated Fisher's bond and paid the Buttafuocos's medical and legal bills. Local interest in the crime had faded. Ratings for the movies, however, demonstrated that viewers around the nation still had not tired of watching the cheap plot play out.
Dirtiest of New York cops emerging from the shadows in Tampa Bay
Ken Eurell is known as one of the dirtiest cops in the history of the New York Police Department.
While in uniform, he doubled as security for drug dealers. Later, using police connections for protection, he sold kilos of cocaine.
His arrest in 1992 made national headlines.
Ultimately, for testifying against Michael Dowd — his partner in crime and with the NYPD — Eurell received a lenient sentence, moved to the Tampa Bay area and quietly raised two children as a stay-at-home dad in a suburban neighborhood.
But he recently stepped back into the limelight in a big way.
Eurell is currently featured in the Showtime documentary The Seven-Five. Titled for the precinct where he served, the story explores the corruption during Eurell's time there.
He has a tell-all book, Betrayal in Blue, due out in late October.
What's more, Sony Pictures is planning a Hollywood film based on the documentary.
"Some prefer I stay quiet of course," Eurell, 56, said in a lingering Queens accent. "Look, this is all public information.
"I didn't ask to make the documentary. They came to me and said they were making it. I figured I could either be a part of it and tell my side of the story or let them tell it for me."
The same goes for the Sony project, he said.
Portions of his story that he finds important hit the cutting room floor in the making of the documentary, so he wrote the book.
In the process, of course, he is making money.
"So what?" he said, rubbing forearms covered in tattoos.
And while he is not proud of his past, he does not apologize for it, either.
"If people want to think, 'F you, scumbag,' that's how it is. I'm not that person anymore. I was stupid. I was greedy. I was young."
Eurell was 20 when he joined the NYPD in 1981.
Police academy instructors warned he would face criminal temptations. But he laughed it off. He could resist, he said.
"It's easier said than done, once all that money is there," Eurell said.
For a while, he was a good cop.
Then in 1987, he was partnered with Michael Dowd.
Dowd already was known as corrupt among the officers of the 75th precinct, in the New York borough of Brooklyn. He stole drugs and cash from crime scenes and allowed crooks to bribe their way out of arrests. Yet none of his colleagues would turn him in.
"You don't rat on your own," Eurell said. "That was the attitude."
Early on in their partnership, Dowd committed a crime and Eurell looked the other way.
Eurell felt safe knowing Dowd had his back on what were the most dangerous streets in the nation at the time.
The war on drugs was a figurative term across much of the nation. In the 75th, it was literal.
"Brooklyn had the highest murder per capita of anywhere," said Frank Girardot, who with Burl Barer co-wrote Eurell's book. "The murders happening were primarily drug related. This was a war zone."
While his partner was pocketing riches, Eurell was earning a salary of just $19,000 a year and putting his life on the line.
"I can't rat on him so I rationalized in my head that made me guilty by association," Eurell said. "I figured I might as well make some money, too."
The bulk of their dirty income came through Adam Diaz, the precinct's biggest drug dealer.
In exchange for $8,000 a week, Eurell and Dowd let Diaz know when his operation was being watched by the NYPD.
They also worked to put Diaz's competition out of business
Sometimes they would tip off the narcotics unit. Other times they would rob the competitors' headquarters.
They were criminals masquerading as law enforcement and enjoying a rich lifestyle — exotic vacations, trips to casinos, fine dining.
It was a fun ride, Eurell said. But today, he said, he wishes he had resisted Dowd and all that temptation.
"I regret ever meeting him. If I had not, I would have been a regular cop."
Still, Eurell acknowledged, he could have walked away.
In 1989, two years after he teamed with Dowd, he injured his hand while making an arrest and was able to retire with a full pension. Coupled with income from his wife, Dori Eurell, the family lived comfortably.
His wife begged him to step back to the right side of the law once and for all. But within a year, he was in business with Dowd again, this time selling cocaine.
Eurell had a rule for his street dealers. Potential buyers had their license plates checked by his contacts in the NYPD to make sure they were not working for the police.
In 1992, one of Eurell's dealers failed to follow this protocol. Eurell and Dowd were arrested.
"This was major," author Girardot said. "When this broke, it knocked Amy Fisher — the Long Island Lolita — off the front page."
The CBS news magazine 60 Minutes covered the scandal. David Letterman joked about it on his late night show. Eurell filled a scrapbook as thick as an encyclopedia with news clips.
"Why would I save those articles? Narcissism?"
Eurell was charged under RICO, the Racketeer Influenced and Corrupt Organizations Act.
While out on bail, Dowd made Eurell another offer: move with their families to Nicaragua and fund the escape by kidnapping a woman for a drug dealer who planned to kill her.
"If he had never planned that, I would have done my time," Eurell said. "Kidnapping and murder was too much."
Eurell informed law enforcement, the woman was whisked away to safety, and Dowd was arrested again. He served 12 years in prison.
In exchange for his cooperation, Eurell was sentenced to time served behind bars — just two months.
Eurell and Dowd have spoken on a few occasions over the years and saw each other at the premiere of the documentary. But, for the most part, they have kept their distance.
Eurell moved to Hernando County and sought to put his corrupt past behind him.
He joined a bowling league, was an active member of the PTA, and proudly boasts that as a stay-at-home dad, he raised his children to be successful adults.
With tattoos, a penchant for curse words as adjectives, and a menacing physique, Eurell acknowledges it has been difficult for him to play the part of a suburbanite.
He is aware he will likely stand out even more in the months and years ahead if his fame grows through the movies and book.
Still, he contends, he is not seeking fame or fortune. He just wants his story told right.
"I wasn't evil. I was young and dumb."
Eurell recalled the day he and Dowd were taken to court for a bail hearing, excited at their new-found fame and musing over who might play them in a movie.
Eurell chose Matt Dillon. Dowd wanted Sean Penn.
Pressed about whom he'd prefer today, Eurell was annoyed.
"I don't care. I don't see this as being famous. This isn't a good thing. But it's a thing I deal with and I'll do it on my terms."
The New York Post found Fisher pleasuring herself with sex toys in front of a webcam in her family's Long Island home.
'Come on guys, talk dirty to me. Tell me what you want me to do,' she said as she performed solo in the nude.
'I'm all alone here, you guys need to tell me what to do.'
In her online profile, Fisher describes herself as a 'horny housewife alone during the day' and falsely claims to be 33 and a 'Latina', despite the fact that she's of mixed Jewish and Italian-American heritage (pictured upon her release from prison in 1999)
In 2003, Amy married Louis Bellera, a former NYPD cop, with whom she had three children. The pair divorced in 2015 (pictured left in 2008, and right in 2011)
The divorced mother-of-three was seen performing in a bedroom in a grey tank top rolled up past her breasts, pink underwear and gold hoop earrings.
Fisher lives there with her mother, eight-year-old son and 12-year-old daughter, two of her three children with ex-husband Louis Bellera, whom she married in 2003 but divorced in 2015.
In her online profile, Fisher describes herself as a 'horny housewife alone during the day' and falsely claims to be 33 and a 'Latina', despite the fact that she's of mixed Jewish and Italian-American heritage.
She also say shes 'likes sweet sexy men. I will chat with you all day, love getting to know you' and performs Monday through Friday from 9am to noon.
Bellera said of his ex-wife: 'I certainly don't approve of what she's doing, but we're divorced two years now. I can't force her not to do it.' In 2016, Fisher was rumored to be back together with ex-lover Buttafuoco, which was proven false (Fisher pictured left in 2011, and right, Mary Jo and Joey Buttafuoco in 1999)
Fisher had moved to Florida in 2011 and worked at a West Palm Beach club but has now returned to New York to avoid 'lunatics' coming after her and her children.
Speaking to the Post, she said: 'My kids were ostracized in Florida. They had no friends. All the mothers thought their kids would get the Amy Fisher gene if they hung out with them.
'Things got so bad for my [eldest] son, the school psychologist even suggested he drop out and get his GED.'
Bellera, who still lives in Florida with their eldest son, 16, told The Post: 'I certainly don't approve of what she's doing, but we're divorced two years now.
'I can't force her not to do it.'
Bellera, a former NYPD cop, said he's suggested to his ex-wife that she 'get a smaller home, get a normal job.
'She said, "No, I'm spoiled and there's too much money to be made",' he said.